She states she's been off and on throughout the marriage. We've encountered some really bad fights over my jealousy in the past. These are valid reasons, however, I have made huge improvements. She even agrees with this. The only other issues are we had a few "encounters" with other women. I became obsessed with this idea and finally had a moment of clarity after she found out I messaged another female. It was for both of us not to cheat, as I never would. Anyways, those are some good points, but nothing we can not work through. It is supposed to be for better or worse, until death do us part. I have broken the same rule twice now. She stayed 8 hours at a bar and we argued about it. Most recently, Sat. night. I played dodgeball without her and hung out for a bit afterwards. when I got home at 0300, she was not there. I texted her at 4 AM. She was with a male co-worker and another female "talking". I was lived. I sent her an email today (nice one though) just letting her know she is disrespecting me and our marriage with those type of actions. It's one thing to go out, but another to be at someone's place at 0400 in the morning. Anyways..
