Hi Kat. My girls are 15 and 17. I'm not going anywhere for at least 2 to 3 years. She doesn't have to stay in Michigan but we would need to have an extended relationship before I would ever feel comfortable asking her to do that and with her being hundreds of miles away, it is difficult seeing how we are going to do that. I'm not ruling it out, just trying to be rationale.
I for my ex-wife - no she does not deserve a second chance. As for Marianne - I'm not sure at this point.
I've only gone out with Julie once and with Sarah not at all. I've mentioned before that I am uncomfortable dating more than one woman at the same time, but many on the board felt that early on that should not be an issue. I think my comfort zone is after 5 or 6 dates. By then I have a good enough feel to either cut things off, or to start looking at exclusitivity.
