The questions about her unwillingness to follow her father comes mostly from XW and her family. The 'pressure' is from there. I know they are just trying to help.

I don't ask often. Probably 3 times since D4 avoids me.
I don't demand answers from D4 too. I just let it go if she doesn't want to answer.

XW and I have come to an agreement if D4 doesn't want to follow, I'll just take D3 out instead.
It's best for the time being.

M35 XW34
D5 D4
M 6years T 10years
Bomb 5/2013
Joint Petition signed 6/2013
Moved out end of 8/2013
Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013
D finalized in 3 months - no news yet