Does she have to stay in Michigan? How old are your girls again? Nothing says you have to marry the girl. Or let's put it this way, anyone worth being with, you will find a way.

Do each of the ladies know you are dating other people? How are they with that? Just wondering. Maybe it is me, or my age but after a couple of dates I would not be good with that.

As for Marianne and your ex, there were choices made I believe by them that left you alone. Do they deserve a 2nd shot while you have at least two ladies that you know might go somewhere?

Just thinking out loud and maybe asking some questions that you need to answer for yourself.

kat

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