In what universe...? part five

[TryingToDo180]

I forgot to mention that the book is coming from my son. Apparently according to my son, H is taking him out to get my card and pressie on Sunday. So nice of him to tell me!
Yes I got my HM friend out of the way, lol.

[MileHigh]

oh well at least he's trying - very trying, lol.

TTD is on a comedy roll lately

[TryingToDo180]

I aim to please I'm a lot happier now since I've stopped stressing about H as I feel totally detached now I also feel that H is just not going to come back and I'm giving up hope. It's gone from him coming in for a coffee and watching TV together to him dropping our son off and driving off!!
I still have moments though where I get down about the sitch. Writing Christmas cards and presents from me and my son hurts like mad I think the flirting has lifted my spirits a bit, even though I don't want it, lol.
The message I ended up writing in the cards was -
2013 has not been a good year. My H left me earlier this year. I hope 2014 is going to be a better year.

[Not Quitting]

I wrote pretty much the same thing in my cards.

2014 is going to be a better year TTD. We are awesome and our spouses are losing out on that.

[2old]

2014 is going to be a better year!!!

[MileHigh]

No matter what happens, we've learned so much, and done so much work on ourselves - we're better for 2014, no matter what it throws at us!

[chasingpavements]

You guys are awesome and I'm so glad to have met you

MileHigh, you're right, we must constantly remind ourselves of that! Whenever I find myself backtracking it helps to remember that!

[TryingToDo180]

I agree they are going to lose out on that bring on 2014, can't wait!

[TryingToDo180]

Time to start a new thread before this one gets locked up - http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2415419&#Post2415419