"It also looks like D4 was the adult for the night."

That's bad. I thought you were going to learn how to be a better parent.

"Seems like things will get much much better between D4 and I. She still needs some persuasion from XW and her relatives. I still don't understand why she is avoiding me."

Because she feels torn between the two of you. She feels like she's in the middle of a tug of war. She doesn't want to have your W be mad at her for being with you because she's seen the two of you argue so much with one another. That needs to stop.

"I did ask about her unwillingness to follow me. I asked if she didn't like me. Didn't get any answer from her.
Is she afraid of me?"

No and stop asking her questions. You have to make her feel comfortable and stop demanding snswers from her. She probably is confused and doesn't know why she feels the way she does. When are you going to start learning how to be a good parent. You said that you were going to read up on it.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER