I wrote pretty much the same thing in my cards.

2014 is going to be a better year TTD. We are awesome and our spouses are losing out on that.

Both 50
S14
M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)

ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012
H moved out - 27 Jun 2013
Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013
Closing the door and changing the locks