Yes, at some point you have to stop pitying yourself about the lack of communication and figure out how you'll get by anyway. For example, not that you should have to, but you COULD now make a routine of verifying appointments with the office the evening before. Take XW's flakiness as a given and figure out a system for dealing with it, instead of expecting her to change. Needing someone else to change in order for you to be OK is a recipe for unhappiness.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
