Speak of the devil (who lurks "in the details")...
I leave work early to arrive at counselor at 3:00, the time that was set at last Monday's appt with counselor by X, C and myself. X's Husband is only person in waiting room. I sit down and say nothing. He comments a few moments later, "Your appointment isn't until 5:00.". I respond, "No it's at 3:00, that the time we set last Monday." He shakes his head slightly and I ask "Are the kids here?" His only response was "Nope."
I step outside and try to call X, DD and DS with no luck. I go back in and sit down. Counselor comes out, looks at both of us and asks. "OK, what are we doing?" I review that we agreed that kids and I were to have a session at 3:00.". C looks at X'sH who says "X decided it wasn't a good idea to check out kids early because of finals this week so she switched times." I then told X'sH, "You couldn't call and let me know?" "I just found out myself" he responded. I'm going back at 5:00
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13