NLT, good to see to post again. I was wondering about you. I’m glad you are staying focused on you and your family. Your H reminds me of a man who’s blog I read last year (it is no longer on the web), who went through his MLC. He said that he never stopped loving his wife, but wanted to spend time with OW, and he could not understand why he could not have both and he could not understand why his wife was not accepting this. He eventually came out of his crisis and reunited with his wife.
My H driving this direction and I’m preparing to see him sometime this weekend. I’m having a hard time with this. He also kept some contact, but we haven’t seen each other since May.
Job, it interesting comment that you would prefer the stich moving in a snail’s pace. My sithc is even slower than that, if it is moving anywhere, except toward the D.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state