Oh that is so sweet and painful at the same time. Can you look at it as a treasure that he has happy memories to keep? Things will always change...he would grow so big that movies in bed with mom and dad would sound creepy (I'm projecting my full grown teen boy attitude here)...and you would still look wistfully back at that picture. So it's not all about your marriage. Imprint what was good in your brain and be thankful for it. That's the best I've got...
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
3-since the bomb, I've had both kids sleep in my bed off and on. It creates a feeling of family and connection and safety for us.
We have had some of the best laughs, talks, and cuddles during these times.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
My kids say and do some heartbreaking things, too. I think that is the hardest part of all this.