Newbie needs help:husband left Saturday

[CallaghanClown]

Is your H in MLC? Good question....he may be, he may not be, but it doesn't make a difference to how you treat him or yourself. But if it helps, yes I think he is in MLC.

This won't help but I feel it needs to be said. He's told you he doesn't love you anymore, I'd prepare yourself for the fact you don't know everything yet. I'd guess him not loving you anymore isn't the last bomb he's going to drop.

As for Christmas it's completely up to you what you do. However you make the decision for yourself and your kids, not him. I'm in a similar position. My H likes to have all the family time but then go back to living is single life. I've made the decision that if he doesn't want to be a family man any longer then events like Christmas and the traditions surrounding them will have to change. This will hurt him but that's not my intension. I need to put me first sometimes, this is one of the times.

Best of luck with your decisions. Too tip: sleep on it!