My Picnic Blanket

[CallaghanClown]

I have been reading other threads.

I need help to finally detach. I want to let go of whatever fear I am still holding on to.

Can you help me?

When does MLC stop being a crisis and just the way they are? When this first started h said he had left everything in the past- he wasn't angry at me and he has simply moved on. Does MLC really last this long? Do i ever start to just normalise relations wit him - whatever is happening- so T least we can alleviate some of this pressure off the kids? Off me?

If I said 01.01.2018 would that help? If I said never? If I said 31.01.2014?

They don't snap out of it. They didn't snap into it. It's gradual. Things will change slowly. Some will do back to 'normal', some will always be different. Some things may even be insufferable and you'll not want him back. But the 'him' he is now will change over time, do to MLC or time!

Detachment is thinking less about him and getting on with you. Only you can get there. Every time I'm there I get dragged back. I'll get there again, but today I'm not!