Jon, I'm so happy that the D was finally dismissed.
My thoughts on the W still behaving pre-DB is that she is dealing with heavy feelings of guilt and anger. I think your answers to her are quite awesome. She needs to continue to see that you have really changed and it will stick. Even though we all know you have!!!!
Don't get frustrated with her behavior, you are doing awesome in dealing with it. This helps us all to see that MUCH patience is still needed even when on the path to reconciliation. I am glad you continue to post!
Me:49 H:47 S: 16 T:27 M:25 My EA: 2001 His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013 Separated, but H still in house
Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.