T2-Love the clipboard and documentation aspect of it. I actually have done some of that myself, albeit for the wrong reasons. I tried to make a list of events, conversations, developments, etc. to try to create a timeline so I could tell where we were at in the process of her MLC. Trying to predict where we were so that I could look into the crystal ball and decide how much longer I had to endure things. Bad move. I abandoned that idea pretty quickly with the help of this board and other people's sitches. I think I may revisit that idea just to catalog everything from an observer's standpoint. That's basically what I've wound up doing here on the board anyway. I know I can't fix her, it's just nice to share with others the craziness.

BTW, I'm a history nerd, so the cause/effect aspect of this MLC is fascinating to me. As well as the examination of events and how our reactions shape our own existence. I teach kids to learn from their past every day. Doh! Why can't I just listen to myself?


Both 40
T-22 M-18
S13
S11

Bomb, ILYBINILWY-7/10/13
EA #1-confirmed 7/10/13, ongoing since 5/13
EA #2-9/13/13

Moved out and Legally Separated 6/14

"Success is a journey, not a destination."