It's just a moment; This time will pass

[Whiterose]

Job, i can see that......we watch christmas movies as a family every year (watched another one with the boys last night) so I'm sure it did bring back memories for him. S19 said he thinks H has a TV now he can watch his own Christmas movies.

The company I'm working with is having a Christmas party at a fancy hotel downtown on Thursday night.....I haven't been to my own company christmas party in at least 15 years so I'm excited. There's a secret santa gift exchange, $20 max, so I've got a cake plate and I plan on making an eggnog bundt cake as a kinda gag gift.

Thank you Portia. This particular SIL was my friend and did not like what her brother was doing and then something happened, not sure what actually, and she just became distant and started unfriending me off of different social media. I've never asked and never message her. What REALLY upsets me is last night S19 was talking to the step-daughter of another SIL (H has three older sisters) and she mentioned that they would be going to SIL #1's house and not SIL #2 (the one that messaged me) S14 pops up....why would we go there? SIL #1 doesn't even like us (hit to the gut for me) It's because SIL #1 deleted me AND the boys off of FB so now S14 thinks his aunt doesn't like him. I said not to worry about what SIL #1 did and I'm sure she likes you. I asked S19 why the step-daughter thought that and something about the step-daughter wasn't invited to christmas at SIL #2's house so SIL #1 decided to have her own and now H is going there.......I said to S19 DO NOT get involved. End the conversation now and do not ask your dad or anyone else. Just get in the truck after Mass on Christmas Eve and go wherever you go. UGGGGG THIS is seriously the bu11shit that happens in their family. Stuff we've dealt with every year!