really could use some feedbsck...
When not knowing what to do, do nothing. sit in quiet a while.
That is what I have been doing.

H says nothing. I say nothing. no one says anything.
huge white elephant in the room.

I used to think a nonanswer from h is an answer. But, I am doing the same thing.

I am allowing h to ignore kids. Its not ok.


M48 H50
M21 T26
S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13