I'm early in my situation too but journaling has been helpful for me just to get thoughts out of my mind. I don't always get people responding to my posts but I did have someone assure me the other day that they were keeping up with my thread even though not much was being said about it at the moment. I'm reading your thread as are many people so keep journaling.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014