Moved Back from Overseas to Figure This Out...

[S4tk]

So, is there an A?

In your first paragraph after the quote, do you mean NOT a dealbreaker?

What you do is completely dependent on you. If her contact with this person in the sophisticated European country is it for you, then you have your answer.

I forgot the NOT and my wording was cloudy, but what I mean is that this EA is not an unconditional deal breaker - so I will keep DBing.

But if it were a deal breaker it would almost be easier because part of me is ready to move on. So I will channel that part of me into the more positive direction of better GALing, more heartfelt 180ing, and healthier detaching - because in a strange way the EA now allows me to do that with less expectations. Does that make any sense?