Thanks for posting this Ambivalent! I needed this today. I go through feelings of being so strong and independent, sometimes followed by moments of feeling sorry for myself. I don't want to be that person.
Dwelling on the past is something that my husband and I do a lot. Why on earth should we worry about or be resentful over things that we did 13 years ago when we were only 20 years old! For one thing, we are not the same people we were back then.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.