I had my X arrested today

[kat727]

I was just going to say that Gineen! I do try to let my ex know about school stuff but I also know he doesn't always make it to their things. So I do try to get there myself.

Your relationship with your kids is yours to make or break. The relationship with your ex doesn't need to control that. When you go to the C tomorrow let them know that you want to be in their lives. That you have contacted the school so that you can be kept up to speed. Let them know that the issues between you and your ex are just that but they also have only heard one side of the story and that there are always two sides. Leave it at that. If they want to know more you can tell them.

Your kids are worth the effort, let them know that.

kat