Thanks FOTW, I know that wasn't right to say if I couldn't go with him I wasn't going. It was just my emotions getting in the way. He didn't want me to go anyway..I know that it just hurts! I ended up not going because I caught my kids bad cold. A benefit for H not living here!!! H sent me a text this AM thanking me for letting our son go the the football game today with BIL. I really did not want respond do to my no contact. But after an hour I did saying... no need thank me and I'm glad he could go he was excited. I was kind of confused why he was thanking in the first place. But maybe that was his way of being able to contact me? I also said..sorry you had to work and couldn't go too. We appreciate all the long hours you're working it is not going un-noticed.
Then no reply and then my mind takes over and says why did I even reply? Wrong I know! At least I didnt send a text saying WTH no reply? I am learning some things!
M15 T19 D13 S13 BD Affair 9/13 S 11/13 D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together. Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.
I am learning some things!
