KML: I did previously raise the issue that son and I need a car with him. It sent him straight into Monster, "he doesn't see how he can possibly be expected to pay for that when money is so tight already, etc." (Money was tight and then we canceled things like Cable tv and movie streaming... which he then turned around and spent the "savings" on his new cellphone service and shopping and eating out). I did mention that it seems like there are a lot of new expenses that could just as easily cover a cheap car payment... later he came around and said "when he gets his tax return in April, getting a second car is the plan."

Well, that's just swell... but does nothing for me between now and April. I also have to expect that in the next few months his plans/priorities may change again to suit himself.


me-35
WAS-37
T-16 1/2
Son-14 (HF Aspergers)
BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013
"Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."