I thought DR was about saving marriages because it says that on the cover of the book.
I am reading it and other things to help myself. It isn't just to get her back. If she does come back I know that I'll have to keep up on things and the changes I have done and am committed to. No doubt. These are lifelong changes regardless.
I haven't told her anything about it, or made promises, begged, tried to reason or use logic. She wanted time and space I gave it to her. I've respected her decisions and she knows where I stand.
The text this morning was initiated by her. I've been keeping with no contact. I was wondering why she initiated and what's going on with her. I can't ask. May never know.
It's all on her time. I'm confused because one day it's, "i don't think I can do this. I may want a divorce." Weeks later, "I'm not sure we can stay married."