Sounds like you and your W were doing the best you could with the skills you had at the time.
What are your boundaries with your son? Have you and W talked about his drug use? It's interesting how you introduced this huge problem as a side note, don't you think.
Congrats on the job!
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss