So CC, didn't get your clarification so i may be misunderstanding your statement but... Ad wrote this on her thread and it very much speaks to how I feel about marriage. Ad, hope you don't mind if I allow you to speak for me.
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I'm still 100% in favor of marriage as an institution...I will never again accept a bad marriage out of misguided respect for the institution. I will protest bad treatment, I will insist on getting help if needed, and I will be the first one out the door next time if no reasonable effort is made to maintain a healthy relationship. A wedding ring is not a life sentence, it's a promise.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
