H did a lot of this type of party as a late teen. I was never the party type. I enjoy it somewhat, but wouldn't want to do that more than once a month. I much prefer the dinner theater we did with another couple Thursday.
But I remembered my H wanted me to do more things with him that he enjoys and he wants to do more things with me that I enjoy, so I went for his sake really, and ended up having a great time.
I see a side of him at these parties that I never see anywhere else. It is something he hid during MLC and didn't want to share with me. So I am accepting all of who he is, and enjoying the new depth to our R. Also, I am seeing that I don't have to be like him to enjoy who he is. I preserve who I am.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
