You do know it'll be your fault if you can't meet up with her don't you . Is she MLC?
My H was a bit chatty when I dropped my son off, but as it was mainly about the trash I just tuned out. I really don't care how her drive home was after she dropped him back to his place . There may come a day when he'll get it through his thick skull that she is not important to me and that I don't care to hear anything about her.
Both 50 S14 M 16 yrs (his 3rd; my 1st)
ILYBINILWY - 24 Dec 2012 H moved out - 27 Jun 2013 Legally separated - 6 Sep 2013 Closing the door and changing the locks