Look what the cat dragged in! (TL) - Act 2

[Pudmuddle]

^^^wise words from job. tigerlil, he is finding any excuse he can to be mad at you, so stop giving in to that behavior. The more things you try to do for him out of the goodness of your heart, the more it will get stomped on. They want us to take the action, such as kicking them out, or showing our anger with them so that will give them even MORE of an excuse to leave and say they are done. Please try very hard, harder than you have ever tried to stop doing things for him and stop talking to him about anything R-wise. This will push him away and is pushing him away. Let him take care of his own moods and deviant behavior, it is nothing about you, it is all the turmoil inside of him. He is ill in a sense.

I'm so sorry that your S was so disappointed by him. That was very juvenile of your H to disregard the priorities of your S. Your H doesn't want responsibility right now. I'm curious, do you have any friends that could have picked you two up as a favor? Just a thought, or maybe a cab ride. I know that would tickle the money situation but you need to do what you need to do. It is not all about H, as much as he thinks it is.

Stay strong tl, please, for your own sanity.