Text today W (12:49) Hey. On Thursday they have a special lunch at D4 and she is supposed to bring 10 NOT cooked chicken legs. Have a nice Sunday Me (15:10) I will handle that. Thanks and right back at you – big hugs for the Ds W (15:13) Deal they say hello It’s a little hard to translate but her wordings are loose, pleasant, nice and smileys in both.
I will call her tomorrow and 1. Get the Christmas days planned. I haven’t changed my mind. She can come here on the 23. She comes here the 26 and we go together to church. S10 and I will not attend her birthday.
2. Invite her to the movie. I feel like inviting her to join me and the kids for a movie on the 25 and if I still feel like that tomorrow I properly will. I haven’t initiated anything for almost 4 months and perhaps it is time. Thoughts or advice?? Am I just serving cake?
3. I will also tell her that I am sending out Christmas-cards. We have done this together since we met and I think it will hurt her (Call it mindreading or caring). I have been soul-searching a lot to be sure that I am not doing this for any other reason than making me feel good. I do not want to hurt W but at the same time I will not withhold myself on something like this just because she might get hurt.
Me:44 W:43 D7, D5 (S11 from other R)
T: 8y - not M ILYB: 8. Mar 2013 W moved: 1. Aug 2013 LRT: 20. Aug 2013 _______________________________ Do or do not – there’s no try.
