I do still have trouble sleeping from time to time. It was a dream about my w that prompted me to send the "time for something different" text at 3 am.
Made spence to me at 3 am... Bad idea.. Anyway
To clarify my sitch a bit more... The last time I actually saw my w was when we had dinner together October 15. In the following week I signed her up for her license renewal course. Things seemed good that week. We had fairly regular communication up until Halloween when w started ignoring my messages. I was feeling pretty low when w responded to one of my messages from a few days before and then she sent me the birthday text and asked me to have drinks with her (Mid November). I had a day of hopefulness followed by more disappointment.
Whatever is going on with her, she doesn't seem to have time for me right now. When she contacted me last week it was more business like. She just wanted to grab stuff and go. I wasn't available. I may see her this week if she gets her stuff; I may just leave it where she can pick it up.
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)