Hey fly, thanks for stopping by!! (My previous response was directed at 2ndtimehurt's questions) I will stop by and check on your sitch.
I will be spending the holidays in North Tahoe (the family vacation home) so I am actually close to you. Somehow I thought you were much further east. I will be putting my kids on a plane out of Reno on XMas day to be with their mom.
I started dating at the end of March. Way way too early. I wanted to cut out the grieving time. I thought about how things went for my previous D, and thought I could avoid the grieving period. I realize now that is really not possible. It just takes time.
I stopped dating around when w agreed to go on the Vegas trip that never happened in July.
I will respond to your dreaming question in my next post...
Me-45 W-44 T-7 years M-3 years (4th anniversary July 13, but we're separated) Kids from previous relationships (s14 d16 mine, s23, s24 hers)