Melissa, I think I would have been a little taken a back with a rejection but it wouldn't have been crushing or anything...

Thing is, I know she won't reject me on the flirting and touch. She never has. And no she never said not to touch her. She has always had a positive response to touch.

I get what evrryone is saying. I'm just not sure why there are a lot of people in my same position (in an inhouse separation) and I'm the one who has to boot her out. Or is that not what is being suggested.

Adinva my mortgage payment is not the problem. Its payments on loans and credit cards that I used to finance growth in my business. Banks don't loan small businesses anymore.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017