Fog City Coaster - trouble hanging on

[2ndTimeHurt]

So because you know she is flaky, do you take it personally when she flakes on you?

This is something that I'm trying to put a positive spin on. I know we all are trying to focus on ourselves and detaching, but sometimes when we know certain behaviors about our spouses, it helps with detaching.

I don't know if I'm sounding vague or even making sense, but when I apply it to my sitch it makes a lot of sense.

I guess sort of like a close friend who is known for being a flake. You don't take it personally(at least I don't). So if you don't get upset or take it personally its a positive.

If I'm guessing correctly, it seems like you don't put much stock into her bailing on you all the time.