Pud, I don't know how this will pan out with your H but it sounds to me like for your own sanity you needed to get this stuff off your chest. And I don't see anything in his reactions that say, "You've chased me away." I think you are right that he is just still in the fog and not ready to cope in the way you want him to.
me-35 WAS-37 T-16 1/2 Son-14 (HF Aspergers) BD,ILYBINILWY,"I met my soulmate": Oct5,2013 "Letting go because I love him, holding on because I love him."
