Fog City Coaster - trouble hanging on

[2ndtimearoundCA]

I usually don't like to point out my w's faults; I can't change her; I can only change me. She doesn't want the pressure of having to be reliable except to her work. Early on in our relationship she struggled quite a bit with the idea of having to call if she would be late at work. She got better with that but never perfect. So her flakiness is part of who she is. Maybe something she could work on with the help of counseling if we were ever to start a new relationship. That is getting way ahead of where I am at. And again I want to focus on me and my actions here.