I don't mean to speak for GM here, but I think she was referring to your earlier comment that you could stay with your W for financial reasons only and it would be fine if you were totally detached.
Your latest post confirms you are not even partially detached . . .
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14