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If I can detach fully and not be bothered by her BS, is it a bad idea?


I'm not going to tell you what to do here, but someone needs to (as kindly as possible) call your BS. There is no way that is going to happen.

It seems the biggest problem you are having right now is being honest with yourself.

me: 44 XH: 42
M 11 years
D10 and S8
Bomb drop 9/27/13
D final 7/1/14