So today she messaged me that she had ordered xmas cards, and also a picture mug fo her dad.

.I asked if the pic was of D3..

Her response was 'no, its of ny cleveage..lol'.

So I wanted to flirt and say something sexual banter style to see how it would be received. She always wanted to talk dirty via text and I was always too much of a prude i guess.

So I said 'oh I want a cleveage mug'

And she said 'Really?? Lmao'.

That is the first time I've implied or insinuated any kind of sexual thing or pursued in that way. My DB coach wanted me to try but I couldn't. I never felt right.

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017