Thank you bright. You may be in a fragile state yourself but I think you made some excellent observations. It's so hard to see these things when you are entrenched in it at the moment it is happening. So I really appreciate the observation. I like what your coach said and it is probably right. I also think my H and I needed too have this conversation right now since I feel like we have been at the beginning and stuck in limbo since this started. I kind of feel like I know a little bit more about where I stand with him at this moment.

I agree I need to sit back and lay low and just keep doing my own thing.


Me:49 H:47
S: 16
T:27 M:25
My EA: 2001
His PA: 10/2007, 6/2013
Separated, but H still in house

Find your Shambala: a place of peace and happiness.