Little back ground. My wife and I have not slept together for 2 years now. A year ago she dropped the ILYBINILWY BOMB. She has said that she is done with our marriage yet on the surface no one would have a clue that there are problems. We are separated but living together. She has surrounded her self with like divorced or separated girlfriends. I continue to work on myself and when I feel weak like I've had enough I think about my 9 year old daughter and how my pain is nothing compared to the pain she would feel if she knew the truth. So here I am about 1 year into my sitch and I feel as if I am just stuck. The 180's worked in the beginning but now seem less effective. There seems to be no movement forward or backwards. I have noticed that my wife is partying more now. Work is not good for her, she is presently unemployed and she seems to be sinking into a dark, depressed, angry place. I feel like her dependency on me makes her mor angry with me even though I have done nothing. I am confused on where to go from here. Any advice?
Wife emotionally checked out 2 years ago ILYBNLWY 2/1/2013 M-48, W-40 D-9 Living together in separation for daughter
