I know how easy it is to think, "If I can just get her to understand, she'll see the light!" Not gonna happen. It's all pressure, I feel the pressure an I'm not even in the same room.
She's confused, back off and let her get even more confused. Every time you have an interaction, it allows her to see the hurt, pressuring, controlling Dingo.
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I am tired of this situation and sick of wasting time and energy on it.
The situation not going to go away but you can stop wasting time and energy on it.
That's just what you need to do. Spend that time and energy on you.
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She still wants to exchange Christmas gifts and wants to go to dinner on Monday for the anniversary of the day we met.
What do you want to do?
Do you think this would be a positive for your situation right now?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
