"It might not make sense to you all why it's hurting, it just is."
It makes perfect sense TTD that you would hurt from this. PM is spot on about how the smallest family things hurt when the family is no longer together. Maybe if you look at your MIL as the mother of your H who gave him life, who raised him for years. It's a blood is thicker than water thing TTD. This is no reflection on you...
It's difficult to accept but family members most always take side's in any break up. It's completely normal for a mother to stand with her son as yours as stands by you. DO NOT feel bad by what your MIL is doing. She is only doing what she feels and although it feels personal to you, it's really not, it's blood.
You know my sitch pretty well. You know my W's son is helping her. Why, because that is his mother and he loves her. You know you are a good person. Your MIL loves just in a different way than her own flesh and blood....This is how I am working through the "family" issue's.
Word for the day "chill" and get that bottle of fun open...lol
