What do people advise on physical signs of affection...just things such as hugs? Currently there is no sex...that isn't even close i don't feel. However, when i hug her she seems somewhat stiff. She doesnt object or anything, just not very responsive.
But then the other night before going to bed she stops by my chair for a brief hand holding. She also has lost a lot of weight over the last year. Last year for xmas i got her wedding band re-sized and since then she has lost even more weight, to the point it is too loose to wear.
So even before our recent 2.5 months of relationship discussions she hasn't worn a wedding ring. Now, two days ago, she has put a plain silver ring on her wedding finger. I haven't brought it up because I am trying to detach/not bring up relationship. Anyone have a hypothesis for that behavior? I had removed my wedding ring a few days after the BD, thinking that was possibly a subtle form of being pushy.
Not many topics like my relationship that I am so clueless on
me 41 w43 married 20 years BD 10/10/13 ILYBNILWY.... 4 kids, 21,18,8,6
