Sorry about the rebuff on your offer of a hug. Maybe a little distancing is in order ... make him come to you for a hug!
I know what you mean about not knowing what they are doing. But, you can't let it eat at you. Get yourself occupied with something else. Go see a movie on your own or take S out for some fun.
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How can a person be happy lying...to someone who used to mean something to them.
I would wager that he is not happy - about lying or a host of other things. And I would wager that you do mean something to him.
Give him space and time. Find the patience. Stay the course.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013
