The thing is, I don't think she did get a coat. She said she would get D19 a coat over Thanksgiving break and, then, D19 never heard another thing. D19 is nervous around them because they are so judgmental and mean.

I'm sure they are blaming D19 for something. I'm not sure what that is? They do this thing where they set her up for failure. They will create new rules and, when D19 unwittingly breaks them, she gets the load of crud on her shoulders. I get the impression they are upset that D19 didn't contact THEM over Thanksgiving. Which, has never been a big deal. They are a lot of work and D19 says she misses them, but isn't sure she isn't happier when they stay away.

Plus, we have the added bonus of H who loves to tell his parents lies. He likes to keep everyone separated so no one compares notes. He has told the inlaws, in the past, that D19 wants nothing to do with them. All very sick.

I didn't take it the wrong way at all. I do let it pile up. I get overwhelmed and avoid it. I like the idea of a list for the New Year. I think I just may be excited about the New Year!!

I did call the roofer, but no one returned my call. I will work on that too.

The Jeep seems to be fine now. I think I may have overreacted (ha! not Heather!!) and it may have been snow that flew into the car when I opened the door. I was stressed about a million things and may have assumed it was the window because that happened to my last Jeep.

Nevermind.

"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man

“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson