Gabbysmom I just saw your comment on the previous page. Yes you are absolutely correct, she has not wanted to end the M or the A.

I'd just really like to fix the lack of money problem either way. I'm focused on my daughter who is young and doesn't understand anything yet. I woul like to use W income to pay down our debt and be in a better position to provide for Daughter regardless of the outcome.

So I guess our relationship would turn into a business one, which it already has. In the meantime I'm working on being happy by myself and not NEEDING someones words of affirmation etc.. working to fix my business

I still think the A will come to an end and I know that doesn't mean anything or guarantee a R, and that I don't like the idea of being second best. Ill have to cross that bridge when I get to it....if ever.

Thoughts? This is tough stuff!

Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017