Are there days that your kids can sleep over with you? Start pushing for that. They will be uncomfortable at first and very frustrating, but it will get better.
You need to start somewhere.
I have been thinking about this a lot. I'm not sure I want to talk to XW about this and dive into another drama again. Felt so sick after the last one.
I will talk to her when I feel ready.
Right now, I'm avoiding her. She's still rude when she speaks. It's better if she text. At least, it's polite.
M35 XW34 D5 D4 M 6years T 10years Bomb 5/2013 Joint Petition signed 6/2013 Moved out end of 8/2013 Court Hearing of Joint Petition 9/2013 D finalized in 3 months - no news yet