One other thing you would be good to remember to do the next time you guys meet in January is to say "our son(s)", instead of "my son(s)" so it will hit home that H needs to step up to the plate and provide for his sons! And H can't really make it all about you, right? It'll make him look bad to 'appear' fighting against his sons well-being and security.
Again, thumbs up to you and your lawyer! Sounds like a real winner to have in your corner.
