I just wanted to share some of my thoughts. Whenever I see people posting about their situation living at home together & it being tense or uncomfortable etc, I still feel very envious that these people have the opportunity to apply the DB principles in this environment.
Same here. You learn all this stuff you wish you knew before she left and you can't do a single thing about it except wait. It [censored] the big one but that's where we're at.
Resentment occurs when we aren't doing what we need to care for ourselves, though we expect others to do it for us.